Dating website success
But I met a bunch of really interesting, great guys, who I still keep in touch with — it's hard to be real friends with them, but we're pretty friendly.I've set up some of the guys on dates with my girlfriends.Neither of us was looking for anything super-serious, but we kept hanging out regularly and it just kind of happened without either of us noticing.I have a son from a previous relationship — Jackson, he was 2 at the time — and they met and just really hit it off.Both our siblings and my mom know and are happy for us.My father will have a difficult time with it, but I believe will accept him in time.But [I] get panicked when I think about the fact that he lived literally one mile away and we had no friends in common. Six months after moving to New York, I started online dating.
So we got a match, but neither of us was really taking it seriously.
We had such a great time, we went to about seven different bars afterward.
About three weeks into things, we were eating dinner at a restaurant in Brooklyn when I realized I was just so infatuated with him.
And you're not going to meet somebody at a bar if you're a single mom. Five months into dating, he proposed, but we had already been talking about it for a few months. So I saw that Khalil liked me, and at this point, it was kind of overwhelming to be a girl doing online dating — I needed to make a spreadsheet or something. After doing online dating for a while, what I knew was I'd rather not spend a long time getting to know him.
He had met my son, so we had to ask: Do we have a future? I don't know what I did to deserve this, but I'm just going with it. But I liked him back, and he messaged me right away. If he seemed normal, we'd have a drink, rather than building up this idea of who he is. On the site we used, they have a question that asks the things you can't live without, and I wrote was bad for the eyes and something about the evil eye. I actually forgot his name — I only remembered that he was no. When I got home, he texted me that he was deleting his account, and I was like, OK. It was the beginning of summer in New York, and every weekend was busy.