What to say to a woman online dating
People will either:- Go through a serious of meaningless questions — where are you from? If you can’t come up with something better to ask, either you are boring, or the person you are talking to is boring and isn’t giving you anything else to work with.
I get asking this once you’ve been messaging a few days if you ACTUALLY want to know how their day was.
This was during the few days of iphone hell, when the “I” was changing, but the message originally said “Ethiopia I guess.” How easy would it have been to just put a “What is your favorite place? ”I borrowed another screenshot from a friend that was almost the exact same scenario: How hard would it have been to add “Where are you thinking of vacationing? Sometimes, a conversation does just run its natural course.
In the early stages, it can feel awkward abruptly changing the subject. And hopefully you have swiped on someone with interesting photos and/or a good bio, and you have something else you can ask them.
But, for the most part, I consider myself someone who can talk about a variety of subjects, with a variety of people.
I never realized how much “like attracts like” in that I am often surrounded by people who are similarly skilled at conversing.
Don’t call someone cutie, sweetie, babe, honey, etc. The few people who might be okay with this are vastly outnumbered by the number of people who don’t like it. Even if someone states in their bio that they aren’t looking for anything serious, or that they are interested in kink, or anything of that nature, they still deserve some respect and to be treated like a human.
I feel like if you want something (or someone) go for it — life is short, and we spend too much time overthinking our interactions on apps.I encountered a very similar situation a few weeks ago, but this one was even worse because we had SO much in common. I got so frustrated that I eventually had to say something because I felt he was acting so incredibly selfish during this conversation.This conversation should have been SO EASY for him to do well in and he couldn’t even bother to just put a “you? Which brings me to my next point…Sometimes in the initial stages of a conversation, you can have a back and forth simply by just asking someone “What about you? By not doing this ONE thing, so many conversations die.This guy took a funny “opening line” and ruined it immediately. It makes everything feel like an interview and it does NOT make me want to go on a date with you.- Ask really vague boring questions that everyone asks — how was your day? I once had to take a break from dating apps for a few weeks because I was so tired of answering how my day was all the time.This is the BIGGEST issue I encounter on dating apps. That was legitimately the main reason I needed a break.